By The Garter Brides for GalTime.com
The first days of school can be a nerve-wracking experience for any mom, but as a stepmom it holds an entirely different set of issues. The stepmother role is one that takes nurturing, care and understanding. Just as it took time for your stepchild to accept and love you for who you are, this will be another phase of your relationship where you'll learn more about each other. This can be a fun new experience for the both of you, so let's make the most of the new school year! Understanding the needs of your stepchild(ren) as well as an understanding of the boundaries between you and their parents is essential. No two relationships are the same but as experts on blended family life, we have a few tips for getting through the first days of school with your step-kids!
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#1: If you and your partner both already have kids, let the older children tutor their new, younger siblings. It will make homework go by faster and give them the chance to bond throughout the school year.
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#2: Work with your spouse to agree on house rules regarding homework, school night curfews, chores and allowances. Showing all your children a united front can lead to less rebelling, especially from older stepchildren.
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#3: Getting involved in school activities can be tricky as a stepmother because you don't want to step on anyones toes. We suggest letting the biological parents handle the PTA meetings and Parent-Teacher conferences while you can join in attending the recitals, plays and graduations.
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